What’s the difference between being a bridesmaid and being the Maid of Honor? And what responsibilities actually come with each role?

In this episode, I’m joined by Lauren, a 2025 Castle & Key bride, as she shares her wedding experience and what it was like getting married at Castle & Key Distillery. We chat about her wedding day, her experience with the venue, and some of the moments that made her wedding uniquely hers.

Then, we dive into the wedding party, specifically, the difference between a bridesmaid and a Maid of Honor. We break down the responsibilities that come with each role, what sets the Maid of Honor (or Matron) apart, and what brides should realistically expect from the people standing beside them on their wedding day.

Whether you’re choosing your wedding party, a Maid of Honor wondering what you’ve signed up for, or a bridesmaid trying to figure out exactly what your role entails, this episode is for you!

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Listen to learn more:

01:56 – Lauren’s Wedding Experience at Castle and Key
06:04 – Understanding Bridesmaid Roles and Responsibilities
12:33 – Transitioning from Bridesmaid to Maid of Honor
18:37 – The Importance of Dress Fittings and Alterations
21:18 – Planning Bridal Showers and Financial Contributions
28:11 – Navigating Wedding Expenses and Gift Expectations
29:58 – Celebrating Others: The Importance of Thoughtful Gifting
32:27 – Navigating Financial Responsibilities as a Bridesmaid
35:22 – Hair and Makeup: Budgeting for Beauty on the Big Day
39:28 – The Role of the Maid of Honor: Support and Coordination
43:45 – Handling Wedding Day Surprises: Keeping the Bride Calm
46:34 – Crafting Memorable Toasts: Tips for Success
49:05 – Avoiding Common Pitfalls: Responsibilities and Expectations
53:14 – Post-Wedding Duties: Ensuring a Smooth Transition
56:34 – Staying Organized: The Importance of Communication
59:00 – Being Present: The Heart of the Maid of Honor’s Role

How to work together:
If you’re getting married in the Lexington, Kentucky area and feel overwhelmed when it comes to preparing for your wedding, Simply Love Studio is here for you! Simply Love Studio is a free resource for couples at any stage of their wedding planning process and is funded by Lexington’s most preferred wedding vendors. Make an appointment in person or online with me, Sarah, today with my link!